Why is it that there are people out there that one day call you Friend and then because of a decision in your life no longer want anything to do with you? I had someone once tell me that I lied to them and that I was selfish because I divorced the girls father instead of staying with him. This person told me that I spent too much time on my health issues and that she did not want to be around people like that.
What I find funny is that people grow up and people change, life changes them. The situations in my past have taught me a lot. My life has taught me that life is too short to harp on the bad stuff, rather enjoy the good things that life has to offer. I am not the same person that I was when this person called me Friend.
I found this person on Facebook recently and I thought I would send them a "Friends Request" because while we were "friends" they were the best friends I had. I figured I would be the bigger person and I would let bygones be bygones and try to build a new friendship with them. Well I still have not heard if they are going to accept the request I guess we will see.
Life in Crete is going really good Papa loves his new job and we are pulling ourself out of this mess we have ourselves in. The girls come home on Monday and I can't wait, I miss them so much.
My lawsuit is coming along and should be over by Halloween Thank God! Once everything is said and done we are wanting to start a horse farm here in Nebraska and hopefully have my brother and his other half out here too. I will keep you all posted. Remember to Smile at least once a day.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Life is getting.....
Okay everyone life is starting to get better. I found my brother and my step sister! The girls are getting ready to come home in the next week or so I can't wait! Papa(My hubby) is home every weekend and we are starting to get back on our feet. Our lawsuit is coming along we are getting ready to go to mediation where the defense starts making offers and they are going to do that over the phone, cause I can't afford to travel down there right now. When the mediation is all done with I will know how much we are getting for all of this hell. Well that is about all that is new here. I will post again soon.
Saturday, July 17, 2010
More on what has happened this summer.....
Why is it that I always seem to be posting on here late at night? May be its because that is the only time I get a chance to. Another change over this summer has been Robert's job. He has been driving for RJ Vyhnalek for over a year and a half, well after the fire things got really bad at the company.
We owed the company a lot of money from when they helped us in Denver, Robert and his boss had come to an agreement before the fire that they would not take his full paycheck every week so we could continue to live and pay our bills, and that worked out great until the fire... After the fire we never got a paycheck again. Rose Vyhnalek was taking money out of Robert's paycheck to pay his child support and then not sending the money to Texas. Some weeks she would not take out taxes because she said there was no reason to. Then the next week when he made more money she took out double the amount of taxes to make up the difference. Robert finally got tired of that when Robert Vyhnalek started messing up on loads and then yelling at my husband for his own mistakes. That was all it took for my husband to say enough was enough. He called up and told the company he wanted to come back to the yard that he was done.
As Robert was on his way in he started to call the different companies out there and he found one close to home. Robert now drives for Nebraska Atlantic out of Gretna, NE. We are making money now! It is going to take us a little time to get back on our feet however, we will make it. If Robert had stayed with Vyhnalek we would have lost everything.
Everything else is going okay. I am working on getting a part time job for just either money to put away or spending cash for all of us.
While I was on the road with Robert I had to go down for my deposition on my case. I found out a few days ago they are ready to go to mediation. I don't know if my spelling on that is right. So it looks like things should be done so with all that. Well I guess that is it for now, I will keep you updated on stuff. We love and Miss you all.
We owed the company a lot of money from when they helped us in Denver, Robert and his boss had come to an agreement before the fire that they would not take his full paycheck every week so we could continue to live and pay our bills, and that worked out great until the fire... After the fire we never got a paycheck again. Rose Vyhnalek was taking money out of Robert's paycheck to pay his child support and then not sending the money to Texas. Some weeks she would not take out taxes because she said there was no reason to. Then the next week when he made more money she took out double the amount of taxes to make up the difference. Robert finally got tired of that when Robert Vyhnalek started messing up on loads and then yelling at my husband for his own mistakes. That was all it took for my husband to say enough was enough. He called up and told the company he wanted to come back to the yard that he was done.
As Robert was on his way in he started to call the different companies out there and he found one close to home. Robert now drives for Nebraska Atlantic out of Gretna, NE. We are making money now! It is going to take us a little time to get back on our feet however, we will make it. If Robert had stayed with Vyhnalek we would have lost everything.
Everything else is going okay. I am working on getting a part time job for just either money to put away or spending cash for all of us.
While I was on the road with Robert I had to go down for my deposition on my case. I found out a few days ago they are ready to go to mediation. I don't know if my spelling on that is right. So it looks like things should be done so with all that. Well I guess that is it for now, I will keep you updated on stuff. We love and Miss you all.
Friday, July 16, 2010
Lost family Members.....Found again
Okay everyone, I know that I have not been on here in a long time. However, I have good reason life has been just a little on the crazy side. I went on the truck for what suppose to be for a week or two and I was on there for almost or just over a month. I had a blast while on the truck as always. However, the best part was the time I spent in Fort Worth, TX with my Dad who I had not seen in a very long time. I know I have always been a Daddy's Girl. It was wonderful to spend time with him and my Aunt and Uncle. I only wish it cold have been a longer time.
Then last week my Dad emailed me and told him he thought he found my Brother Brad. I could not believe it! I have always known about my brother however, never knew where he was. We found him on Facebook and I sent a friends request. I was not sure if he was going to accept but I hoped that he would. Then I got the e-mail that he had. My heart both soared and also, skipped a few beats. I started to think about things like what if we didn't get along and what if he didn't want anything to do with me, or what if he had not been told about me. How do you introduce yourself to a person who might not have been told that you even exists? Well I sent him a message explaining who i was and he wrote back!
Over the past week I have talked to him every night and have found out that we are so alike that it could be scary. I feel like you do when your doing a puzzle but you can't finish the puzzle because a piece is missing, then when you least expect it that piece appears. We have so much in common it is really neat. I wish we could have grown up together, but I guess it was meant to be this way.
I am still trying to get over the fact that I have a brother and I know where he is and how he is doing. We are working on trying to get a trip together to go out and see him. Its a neat feeling to have a brother. I have a lot of time to get to know him and a lot of time to make up for. All I can say is i am glad I found him and that him and my Dad are part of my life again. I don't intend on losing either one of them.
The girls are doing good, they are ready to come home from their Dad's house, which won't be much longer now. They will be home around the first of August. I can't wait I miss them like crazy. Another change to our lives is that we have had our cell phones turned off and all we have is a home phone. So if anyone needs to find me they can reach me on the home number which is 402-826-6347. There is so much more that has happened however, I need to get to bed because it is late. I will write in here again later.
Then last week my Dad emailed me and told him he thought he found my Brother Brad. I could not believe it! I have always known about my brother however, never knew where he was. We found him on Facebook and I sent a friends request. I was not sure if he was going to accept but I hoped that he would. Then I got the e-mail that he had. My heart both soared and also, skipped a few beats. I started to think about things like what if we didn't get along and what if he didn't want anything to do with me, or what if he had not been told about me. How do you introduce yourself to a person who might not have been told that you even exists? Well I sent him a message explaining who i was and he wrote back!
Over the past week I have talked to him every night and have found out that we are so alike that it could be scary. I feel like you do when your doing a puzzle but you can't finish the puzzle because a piece is missing, then when you least expect it that piece appears. We have so much in common it is really neat. I wish we could have grown up together, but I guess it was meant to be this way.
I am still trying to get over the fact that I have a brother and I know where he is and how he is doing. We are working on trying to get a trip together to go out and see him. Its a neat feeling to have a brother. I have a lot of time to get to know him and a lot of time to make up for. All I can say is i am glad I found him and that him and my Dad are part of my life again. I don't intend on losing either one of them.
The girls are doing good, they are ready to come home from their Dad's house, which won't be much longer now. They will be home around the first of August. I can't wait I miss them like crazy. Another change to our lives is that we have had our cell phones turned off and all we have is a home phone. So if anyone needs to find me they can reach me on the home number which is 402-826-6347. There is so much more that has happened however, I need to get to bed because it is late. I will write in here again later.
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